Wow, I’ve finally found time to write this blog post. This number is very special to me because I know how it feels to not be happy with who you are and forever wanting to change. In this post I want to help any of you who suffer with confidence issues; no matter whether its small or big I want this post to help you if you struggle with it.
No one’s Perfect and Everyone is different
A friend of mine once told me:
“To say that everyone is perfect is saying that no one is perfect, to say that everyone is special is saying that no one is special, but to say that everyone is different doesn’t make everyone the same.”
No one is perfect and everybody has insecurities about themselves, so it time to stop comparing yourself with everyone else because no one can ever 100% happy with themselves. Another thing to remember is that everyone is different, if everyone looked the same, talked the same and believed in the same things, the world would never go round and the human race could never successfully thrive. The only way that the world can go round is if everyone is different both physically and mentally where everyones differences compliment each other. Don’t beat yourself up for being different, because in the end everyone is different to each other. The people who are happiest tend to be those who accept that they are different and thrive on it. I know this for a fact because I was that girl a couple of years ago, who hated being different to everyone else; I soon learnt that being different had its perks and I started to accept my differences, I have now turned out to be a happier girl. Who cares what other people think about you?! Be yourself everyday and be happy ! In the end it’s your life so life it the way you want to live it 🙂
Dwelling on the Negatives:
I don’t know whether its part of human nature or whether its just what society tells us to do, but I feel that so many people look in the mirror and see all the bad things about themselves. STOP! No matter how many negatives you see there are always incredible things about yourself and qualities that make you AMAZING! Always try to remember that whenever you look at yourself in the mirror, remember to look at the best aspects about yourselves and not to dwell on your flaws. Everyone has flaws so why should you try to point out your own and make yourself feel bad? Life is too short to feel upset and bad about yourself, remember there will always be good aspects about yourself! Stay positive about yourself and life and you will be a happier soul !
I hope this blog post was useful for you all ! Remember to have fun this summer and STAY POSITIVE and be HAPPY <3